The Dover community mourns the loss of a college cheerleader who was known for her tumbling abilities and award-winning personality.
Andre Schaeffer, 16, died on June 12 at Children’s Hospital in Boston, Massachusetts after a suicide attempt.
Kelsey Leighton Daigle posted a video of a healthy and tumbling Schaeffer on Facebook Monday morning. She is a cheerleading coach at Dover High School and Maine Stars Cheer Gym.
Dover High School Cheerleading posted pictures on their Facebook page.
“André’s spirit and his always vibrant personality will never be forgotten. Our king of tumbling, the glue of our team, the one who always said ‘you can do it’ and the athlete who inspired it all … will always be a part of the DVC. His name will live on through our program forever. We are grateful and grateful for everything he has taught us, ”the Facebook page administrator wrote.
Cheercast also shared pictures of Schaeffer on their Facebook page.
“André’s wish was to donate his organs, so for us he will never really be gone, because he will live in others. We hope that someone will receive his heart because when he does, he will receive best gift of all. Andre’s heart was full of passion for all he loved to do, especially joy, empathy for those who struggled, motivation to do his best, and most of all, he gave unconditional love to all who knew him, ”the administrators wrote.
They wrote about how contagious Schaeffer’s smile was and the fact that he had a sharp wit.
“He beat his own drum and was an amazing young man … often wearing a pink sock and a blue sock, creating vlogs that made us all laugh and each time landing a double full! We loved him for everything! he was and words cannot express how deeply we will miss him! ” the administrators wrote.
Schaeffer wanted to applaud at Navarro College, a public community college in Texas known for its competitive incentive program. He then intended to return to New Hampshire and work as a police officer.
In general, the mental health of tweens and adolescents is currently the subject of discussion in New Hampshire.
On June 3, Governor Chris Sununu announced a $ 100 million investment in mental health in New Hampshire.
Asked what will be done to help tweens and teens affected by the pandemic, Sununu said the children have endured a lot.
The governor said his main goal is to create a system that parents can turn to if their child suffers from a mental health problem.
“It’s about this mom. It’s about this father who sees his child in crisis and says, ‘I know what to do. I’ve never dealt with this before, but I know there is a system out there that can provide these supports for my child, ‘”Sununu said.
The state also ensures that children are treated in the right way in a setting appropriate for children.
“How do you deal with mental health issues or anxiety and crisis issues with a child?
is so different than with an adult and you have to have the right expertise, ”Sununu said.
Patrick Ho, outgoing president of the New Hampshire Psychiatric Society, recommends talking with teenagers on mental health.
Ho said pediatricians are trained to help parents and children find the resources they need.
If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide, visit the National lifeline for suicide prevention website. Resource information is provided free of charge as well as an instant messaging service. To speak directly to a professional, dial 1-800-273-8255. You are not alone and help is available. Every life is important.
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